Friends

Sometimes as we wander through life we meet someone that we just feel we have known all of our lives. Such is the case when I met Little Bit of Heaven, lady lara, Victoria's Secret, UK Lady and recently my newly adopted daughter Melani Ü. Though our female bonding is strong and we talk and share many details of our lives, there still remains a need for a strong male figure to keep us, or I should say me, in perspective.

At times the male figure thinks of things that we do not. People do not realize sometimes that the need for male companionship goes beyond the act of making love. There are times, we can have a male in our life that is not our sexual partner, but a great friend and support system. As the female and male share joys and happiness, it at times can help us understand each other.

Anyone that uses the Internet and especially the Chathouses, will know what I am speaking about when I say someone will come into a room and you feel a strong bond almost immediately. This along with many other things in our lives, is unexplainable. It just can happen and when it does you realize you have a found a special treasure. This person can be someone with interests similar to yours or someone who is totally different. Someone who has led a life very opposite of your own. This person many times becomes the sensible side of your nature. The outsider looking in, the one who can tell you anything and you will consider his opinion. This person understands you and your needs, as you do his. This is someone, many times the only one you can be totally honest with.

You can relate to them as they do to you. This person never feels you are foolish, but looks for the good in you at all times, as you do them. They can tell you that you are being unreasonable, or even tell you off, but it is never taken or given in anger and always understood. Many times, it is just the unspoken words that lead to total understanding and acceptance.

Such is the case when I met The Wanderer. Perhaps it is his wandering nature, the gypsy in him, the gentleness and understanding, his free spirit. One will never know. The Wanderer has been a great support and a good friend. He is someone I am totally at ease with to share the most intimate details of my life and I never have to explain myself, he just knows and understands. Though we have not been friends a long time, it seems as though I have known him all of my life. I so appreciate the concern and the caring he has shown. Always wondering if I am okay, how the day has gone, what is happening in my life, it means so much. Though I cannot speak for him I also believe he is appreciative of the care and concern I have for him as well. It is a wonderful feeling having great people in your life that serve so many different needs. One may live alone but never be lonely. I can only wish for each and everyone of you that visit my homepage that you too find some of these very special people who enrich your life in more ways than can be imagined.

To the Wanderer, thank you for being you, for the time you take to show you care. You are a great friend and a wonderful person and I just wanted you and others to know how important people like you are in lives of those such as me!

Thank you.

That said, I'd like to share some thoughts on a few friends in particular.

[ Friendly Faces ]